If you say you will...do it!!
So just this lovely evening I had the pleasure of being agrravated with my boyfriend for the first time when nither one of us were drunk. I was supposed to call him at 9:30... I forgot...I ended up not calling until aroung 9:50. He did not pick up and I left a message for him to call me. An hour later, he calls.
"Hey, sorry I fell asleep. I'll be there in a few"
Ok...so then another hour goes by...no boyfriend... so I go to bed. I had only been asleep for 5 minutes and my phone rings,
"Hey, sorry. I got to talking to my sister. You still want me to come over?"
After a couple seconds of deliberations. I told him yes. My reasoning... we are supposed to have a bad winter storm here tonight and I don't want to be alone. I know I should have been like.."Hell no! If you want to see me then you can come when you say you are going to come."... BUT... I didn't.
This leads me to this thought... is it just men in general that do things like this... or is it him ( and a few others that I have dated in the past). Is it really that hard to do something that you say you are going to do. I mean, a few minutes late here and there is ok.. but a hour or more is ridiculous.
So to any man that may be randomly reading this fabulous blog, please remember this, if you say you will be some where at a certain time... be there.. or we will just sit aroung and blog about you all night long! :)
"Hey, sorry I fell asleep. I'll be there in a few"
Ok...so then another hour goes by...no boyfriend... so I go to bed. I had only been asleep for 5 minutes and my phone rings,
"Hey, sorry. I got to talking to my sister. You still want me to come over?"
After a couple seconds of deliberations. I told him yes. My reasoning... we are supposed to have a bad winter storm here tonight and I don't want to be alone. I know I should have been like.."Hell no! If you want to see me then you can come when you say you are going to come."... BUT... I didn't.
This leads me to this thought... is it just men in general that do things like this... or is it him ( and a few others that I have dated in the past). Is it really that hard to do something that you say you are going to do. I mean, a few minutes late here and there is ok.. but a hour or more is ridiculous.
So to any man that may be randomly reading this fabulous blog, please remember this, if you say you will be some where at a certain time... be there.. or we will just sit aroung and blog about you all night long! :)
posted by ch-hay duex at 9:51 PM
2 Comments:
It's all men, and it's not just men. Everyone has done it at some point. The problem with him is that he seems to do it quite often. A lot of guys are like that but not all of them. And you do come on kind of strong from the beginning, demanding a lot of attention, so maybe that makes guys feel pressured...and maybe that's part of the reason why they do that stuff. BUT that's still no excuse. If a guy doesn't want to hang out, he should just say so. It might hurt a girl's feelings, but it's not as bad as sitting around wondering what's going on.
I dont think that all guys are like this, just a heck of a lot of them. Whether everyone in the whole world does it or not, still doesn't make it right. I just so happened that I was discussing this exact situation with another friend of ours just the other day, and she said that when this happens to her, the boy is OUT OF LUCK at least for the evening. The advice was if you let it happen it will keep happening.
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